I really don't think life is about the I-could-have-beens. Life is only about the I-tried-to-do. I don't mind the failure but I can't imagine that I'd forgive myself if I didn't try. What others say of me matters little; what I myself say and do matters much. I don't like to commit myself about heaven and hell - you see, I have friends in both places. I am more than I know myself to be. If I discover within myself a desire which no experience in this world can satisfy, the most probable explanation is that I was made for another world. I would much rather have regrets about not doing what people said, than regretting not doing what my heart led me to and wondering what life had been like if I'd just been myself.